No, never

We missed seeing Ben’s lively laughing birthday crowd this year.

When a friend asked me if we’d ‘moved on’ and if that was why we didn’t have a big celebration, I wanted to stand on the top of a tall building and shout to everyone ‘No! Never!’

But friends with commitments and us returning to our small house meant we didn’t organise a big day, only a small family-ish group.

We are hoping that for Ben’s 30th next year, his birthday will be unrivaled in people’s social calendars and we will have a big gathering.

Time moves on Ben, but we won’t leave you behind, like a sepia on the wall.

Lindy